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vulva moulding – “feeling embodied about her pussy”

by kai – sexpert and client Miss.T

My client Miss.T has granted me permission to share her experience with you.  Recently I caught up with Miss.T. The last time I saw her we talked about molding her vulva. Which most people call vagina. She has always thought that her vulva looked average and couldn’t see the beauty in her genitals. Feeling disembodied with her vulva. This is what I term vulva dysmorphia. There can be a variety of reasons for this. Sometimes it’s often a result of vulva’s seen in porn that are photo shopped, cropped and turned into a (designer) vagina. This was the case for Miss.T comparing her vulva with others.

I suggested that she mould her vulva. Vulva moulding is a great bodywork modality for women to explore their genitals in an artistic, expressive and somatic form. It captures a dimensional view not seen by vulva owners.

So, Miss.T organised a time to see me at the lounge. We had a casual conversation. I talked about what was involved. Completed a couple of consent formalities and away we went.

Before I continue, from this point onward the nomenclature for Miss. T’s vulva will be “pussy”. That is what she calls her genitals and that is the term I will use.

After explaining the ins and outs on what will occur, Miss.T disrobes and leisurely reclines on the chase. Whilst I prepare the alginate I get Miss.T to place her hands over her mons pubis and feel into her pussy. This actually helps her to relax. It also dilates the blood vessels and skin around the genitals.

My pussy looks so different. Miss.T

She was so excited about the process. It was an honour to witness her feeling into the moment. A couple of laughs later and the alginate was ready to go. I place the mould with alginate over Miss. T’s pussy. The mould covers her whole pussy. I ask her to take over from me and apply firm but gentle pressure.

It’s always an intense moment for me once the mould is placed. At this point things can go wrong with the position of the mould and the alginate. We wait 4 minutes. Then I slowly reveal the first ever cast of her pussy. It was certainly revealing but the cast didn’t capture much detail. Possibly due to the amount of pressure being applied. So, we did another one. This time she wanted to see more of her pussy’s lips (labia minora) to be specific.  So, I prepared some more alginate and she gently parted her labia minora for another cast.

She was elated when I revealed the next cast. She could now see her pussy’s labia minora in great detail. The second cast captured the top of her clitoral hood all the way down to her anus.

I then prepared the resin and poured it into the cast. Miss T. assisted and took great pride spreading the resin evenly. It takes approx. 24 hours for the resin to set. The grand finally will unfold over the next few days.

I would like to thank Miss.T for allowing me to share her experience with you . It was an honour to facilitate, be present and witness the change in her.