about me

Hey! I’m Kai.

“I believe great sexual wellness starts with a healthy sense of curiosity”.

Driven by this philosophy, my work encompasses broad, holistic body-mind modalities. I educate clients somatically so they can live erotically free and healthy. I am passionate and believe in the work I do.

I established Polysoma due to a gap in professional health services that work with the lived sexual person and their experiences. In particular, services that focus on sexual healing, wellness and learning about one’s sexual body.

I hold a Bachelor of Clinical Practice with an extensive clinical and scholarly background in primary health care and research. I have undertaken specialist training in somatic sex coaching and bodywork with the Institute of Somatic Sexology. I am a professional member of the Somatic Sex Educators Association Australasia and the Trusted Bodywork group.

If there is one thing I enjoy sharing about my life, it’s my experiences with the natural world around me. The sense of freedom the ocean creates, the inspiration from the trees rustling in the hills. I am formidably intuitive and logical. I am often moving freely in both directions. At the heart of me is a curious, spiritual and embodied man navigating the modern world. Feeling into the experiences of life are essential to me. Especially those experiences that give me the greatest of pleasures.

Like most people, I have a long and diverse sexual journey (positive and negative) with my own body and mind. I appreciate and respect these experiences for what they are. I have been a casualty of teenage sexual abuse. Such misfortune has given me a lived insight to sex-negative behaviours, sexual boundaries, consent and power dynamics.

It’s these different sexual experiences, combined with my professional knowledge that allows me to work with the intentions and complexities that clients come to see me for.

My non-judgemental open mind allows clients to share and explore their most intimate experiences and thoughts with me.

Thinking about becoming a new client? I would love to learn more about you and your intentions. Let’s connect →

Interested in learning more about my philosophic values? Check this page out →