blogs to look out for
*Rhythms of orgasm* – I explore a new way of looking at our erotic lives through spiritual and physiological rhythmicity. *The delicate nature of child and teenage sexuality* – a …Read more
ballsac pleasures
written by me Kai – Bodysex therapist and sex educator. I am someone who happens to love his ballsac. Sometimes I get much more pleasure from my scrotum than the …Read more
genitals – stress release and relaxation
written by me Kai – Bodysex therapist, intimacy coach and sex educator. How many people touch their genitals when they are stressed? I suspect a few of us do. Its …Read more
shaming cut and uncut cock
by me Kai There is a strong movement at the moment to end routine infant circumcision and rightly so. I support this wholeheartedly. I have recently observed the same movement …Read more
Sexuality and its labels – LGBTIQIA+ supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!
written by me Kai – Bodysex therapist and sex educator. YOU might have a difference of opinion when reading this article. I may also not agree with you. That my …Read more
chronic genital pain and painful sex – a heart felt discussion
By Kai, Bodysex therapist and sex educator When I talk about genital and pelvic pain it comes from personal experience and a professional relationship around the subject. It is often …Read more
the story of toys and genitals
By Kai, Sexpert There are so many sex-positive movements occurring around the world right now. But none as important as this one. When I think about the story of toys …Read more
the emotional stiffy
The emotional stiffy! They are spontaneous erections that can occur at any time and place. Triggered by an array of conscious and unconscious emotions. The emotional penis doesn’t have to …Read more
vulva moulding – “feeling embodied about her pussy”
by kai – sexpert and client Miss.T My client Miss.T has granted me permission to share her experience with you. Recently I caught up with Miss.T. The last time I saw …Read more
dealing with the dark side of sex – sex positive communication
by kai – sexpert and dr. barnaby barratt – Director of Studies at Parkmore Institute; Psychoanalyst, Consultant in Sexuality and Somatic Psychology (phd, dhs, abpp) There is a DARK SIDE to sex …Read more