genitals – stress release and relaxation
written by me Kai – Bodysex therapist, intimacy coach and sex educator. How many people touch their genitals when they are stressed? I suspect a few of us do. Its …Read more
chronic genital pain and painful sex – a heart felt discussion
By Kai, Bodysex therapist and sex educator When I talk about genital and pelvic pain it comes from personal experience and a professional relationship around the subject. It is often …Read more
dealing with the dark side of sex – sex positive communication
by kai – sexpert and dr. barnaby barratt – Director of Studies at Parkmore Institute; Psychoanalyst, Consultant in Sexuality and Somatic Psychology (phd, dhs, abpp) There is a DARK SIDE to sex …Read more
art and social genitalia – part one – Fefo
by lead sexpert – Kai FREEDOM of bodily expression for many people is often frightening and shroud in shame and stigma. There are many social movements occurring in the world. …Read more
Bodywork: The erotic art of wellbeing, embodiment and somatic sexology
Sex. Life. Art. The world’s most inclusive magazine about sexuality and gender. I recently featured in Archer Magazine. I discuss the professional aspects of bodywork and erotic education in health …Read more
the sexual downside to antidepressants
by bodysex therapist – kai In this blog, I discuss the SEXUAL DOWNSIDE to antidepressants. How these drugs damage our emotional and neurological systems for attachment, bonding, sex drive, romantic …Read more
mindful dating
by Tammy Moran – counsellor and sex educator / kai – bodysex therapist and sex educator Kai – When I think about dating or feeling into a dating experience …Read more
sexual emergencies in relationships
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist Some clients who come and see want to talk about the disconnections with their partner. Disconnection can be a common theme in many relationships, …Read more
age and fine wine – sexual intimacy
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist Have you ever had one of those ‘wow,’ ‘ah-huh’ moments? I had one of those ‘moments’ when I viewed “lovers making love”. For the …Read more
do men have a clitoris
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist Anatomy has always been one of my favorite subjects. Particularly when it comes to genital anatomy and function. I recall hours spent at the …Read more