genitals – stress release and relaxation
written by me Kai – Bodysex therapist, intimacy coach and sex educator. How many people touch their genitals when they are stressed? I suspect a few of us do. Its …Read more
shaming cut and uncut cock
by me Kai There is a strong movement at the moment to end routine infant circumcision and rightly so. I support this wholeheartedly. I have recently observed the same movement …Read more
chronic genital pain and painful sex – a heart felt discussion
By Kai, Bodysex therapist and sex educator When I talk about genital and pelvic pain it comes from personal experience and a professional relationship around the subject. It is often …Read more
the story of toys and genitals
By Kai, Sexpert There are so many sex-positive movements occurring around the world right now. But none as important as this one. When I think about the story of toys …Read more
vulva moulding – “feeling embodied about her pussy”
by kai – sexpert and client Miss.T My client Miss.T has granted me permission to share her experience with you. Recently I caught up with Miss.T. The last time I saw …Read more
art and social genitalia – part one – Fefo
by lead sexpert – Kai FREEDOM of bodily expression for many people is often frightening and shroud in shame and stigma. There are many social movements occurring in the world. …Read more
Free Your Genitals Project
Access the FYG Project by Polysoma here. Earlier this year I collaborated with U.S. based designer Andrew Schatz. I asked Mr. Schatz to create genital artwork that would break down …Read more
viva la vulva
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist The vulva! Variations in size and colour are all normal, no vulva is the same. I would like to have a healthy discussion about …Read more
pain – it’s a fine line
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist In this blog article I explore pleasure-pain states and how you can affect these through sexological bodywork, orgasm, massage, touch and cognition. If you …Read more
Mindful Masturbation
by – Kai, lead somatic sexologist I masturbate, you masturbate we all masturbate. If you don’t masturbate then I would love to hear from you. A masturbation study conducted in …Read more